Grounded
In Herself
If you are still stuck in a loop months after a significant breakup,
this is for you.
The thought keeping most of my clients awake at 3am is:"What's wrong with me?"And it arrives with a whole cluster of other questions:
"How long is this going to last?"
"I know it's over. Why doesn't it feel like it's over?"
"Why's he fine and I'm not?"
"Am I always going to be like this?"Most of these women are back at work, back to functioning, looking completely fine to everyone around them.Therefore they keep the questions private.Nobody at work knows.
Friends have stopped asking.
So the questions run in silence.
They have already tried everything.
No contact.
Staying busy.
Seeking comfort from friends.
Maybe even counselling or therapy with no or limited results.Therefore they did everything right.But the loop is still running.And that is the part that breaks them.Not the breakup.The fact that they did the work
and it still didn't stop.They are not to blame.Because this is the common experience of most women I work with.And it has a specific reason.Because what nobody told them
was that the loop was never about him.

When a significant relationship ends, you lose more than the relationship.You lose the version of yourself that existed in the dynamic.Your certainty.
Your confidence.
Your trust in your own judgment.So ultimately, you ended up losing yourself.And before you try to get over him, you must find her first.

Since you're still reading this, something I said must have resonated with you.And that means a lot.So I would like to give you a gift.It is called the Grounded In Herself Pattern Assessment.It is a free 20 minute conversation.
Just you and me.In this conversation you will finally understand:Why the loop started.Why it has persisted despite everything you have already tried.And what your specific path forward looks like.This assessment is valued at $197.It is yours at no cost.No pitch.
No pressure.
No obligation of any kind.Yes it's a free gift.
Yes it's online.
Yes, you'll have my complete attention.The clarity is yours regardless of what you decide to do next.If you are ready to find out exactly why you're still stuck and what specifically moves it.Click below and choose a time that works for you.I am looking forward to meeting you.- Mark
Founder, Grounded In HerselfP.S. It's 20 minutes together.

MARK ILICAK
Founder, Grounded In Herself
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